Be fashionably late
Don't be the first to arrive -- or the last. Arriving in the middle of dinner is rude, as is leaving too early. That said, don't plan other social engagements on the same evening.
Mingle with everyone
Don't head directly to the bar or buffet table as soon as you arrive. Mingle first.
Keep your right hand free to shake hands.
Be friendly with everyone's significant other. They'll remember your kindness and courtesy, and may prove influential in your future career pathAvoid shop talk
Get to know your colleagues on a personal level. Ask about their favorite sports or recent vacation destinations. Be a good listener.
However, the company office party may offer a chance to chat with the CEO or other senior managers you don't speak with often. Consider what you will say if the opportunity arises. It's important not to monopolize the higher ups' time: introduce yourself and mention that you're excited about certain projects in the new year.
Don't hit on co-workers
Even if that gorgeous secretary from the
advertising department throws herself at you, do your career a favor
and refuse her advances. Alcohol may be a factor in her actions, and
your response. Mixing business with pleasure requires careful
consideration as many careers have been derailed due to an unplanned
office party alliance.
Watch your language
Avoid foul language, vulgar terms and
inappropriate topics. Limit jokes to people you already know. Test a
few on your friends beforehand.
Drink moderately
There is a great temptation to drink excessively
at office parties. Pace yourself with alcohol. There's no shame in
declining a cocktail, especially if you're driving.
Eat carefully
Avoid sloppy hors d'oeuvres. It's difficult to maintain a professional image when you have dip on your tie.
Mind your manners
Remember the rules of etiquette at the dinner
table. Let others start eating first, wait until your mouth is empty
before talking and chew slowly.
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